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Life Lessons From My Husky

I’ve been observing this puppy of mine for the last couple weeks, and I’ve decided that there’s a lot to learn from her. Here are some of the lessons she’s taught me!

"Mom, I found a softball. It's so much better than my dinky tennis balls!"

No Matter How Much You Like It, It Can Be Tough To Carry Around

We went to the dog park last week, and Buffy found this softball. Oh, how she loved it. She was determined to haul it around with her — even though it’s about the size of her head. Sometimes as humans we carry around our nostalgia like Buffy’s softball. Sure, it can still look shiny and new, but really it’s just something old we keep finding over and over again.

Continuing to carry it with us is a chore, though not always one we see as such. Sometimes we never know how much weight we’ve been hauling with us until someone makes us let it go.

Satellite dishes!

Your Ears Should Be Your Biggest Asset

Even if they resemble satellite dishes more than auditory devices, your ears are important. Listening to the world and the other people around you is one of the greatest tools you can ever use. So often we surround ourselves with sound without taking the trouble to sit down and really listen — and all too often we hear words without listening to the meaning behind them.

We’re all guilty of it: people with differing viewpoints, our parents, our spouses, our friends, our bosses, our employees, our children, that homeless guy on the corner. The list goes on and on. We think we know best and wonder why things aren’t working out the way we wanted them to. Nine times out of ten, our problems can be more easily solved if we just open up our ears and hear people out.

Everybody loves an ice cube on a hot day.

Even If You Are Very Different, You Still May Have Things In Common

When Buffy and Willow first met, there was a lot of bottle brush tail, a few lunges, several hisses, and a full-clawed swipe or two. They may both have four legs, fur, and a tail, but they’re still different kinds of critters who speak a different language. It took them some trial and error and a lot of listening to the occasional yelp and mew to get it right — and they still backslide a little — but now they’re able to hang out and share something they both like: ice cubes.

I gave them both ice cubes the other day, and lo and behold, they both love them! They sat there just lick, lick, licking them until they were gone. Even if you’re different than someone, even if to you a friendly bark sounds, well, friendly and you can’t understand why it scares someone else — you might be able to find some common ground somewhere. That’s where those satellites above come in handy.

"Willow's toys look like much more fun than mine, Mom!"

Some Things Are Out Of Reach For Good Reason

I don’t think people like to hear that, even though we tell our kids and our pets over and over. “Don’t touch the stove; it’s hot!” “Just because you can get on the roof doesn’t mean you should!” “Yes, but how are you going to get down from the tree?”

Willow’s bird sure looks like fun to Buffy, but that plastic rod could splinter easily. It has small parts that could choke her. Just like Willow shouldn’t gorge herself on Buffy’s treats, Buffy shouldn’t get to play with toys that could be hazardous to her.

Think about 2008, the splintering plastic rod in the US mortgage world. For a decade, Americans bought houses that were out of reach. Just barely, maybe, but they overextended themselves. Then the rod splintered, and we all choked on it. I worked in real estate that year. It went boom, and not in a good, exploding values sort of way. More like diamonds to dirt. If something is out of reach, it doesn’t mean we should stop at nothing to get it; it sometimes means we should be content with what we have and be thankful for it.

Something tells me she won't fit.

What Works For Someone Else Might Not Work For You

This also can be a tough splinter to swallow. Willow loves her boxes. Spouse went through a whole twenty minutes of trouble to carve out holes, make little danglies, and generally create a cardboard paradise for Willow Kitty. Buffy doesn’t have anything like that, and she tries to chase Willow inside her little havens.

But she doesn’t fit. She instead knocks them over and then sits there looking bewildered.

If she did get inside, she’d likely feel trapped and panicked and try to get out, breaking the box in the process. We’re back to the people are different theme — what works for you might not work for someone else. That can go for politics, religion, waking up early, who you want to marry, and what kind of cheese you like on your sandwiches. Trying to fit into someone else’s comfy box could cause panic and claustrophobia. Find something that works for you, and be yourself.

"I love my chicken quarter, Mom. It's deeeeelicious. And tastes even better on the floor!"

Think Outside The Bowl. Erm, Box.

There are seven billion people on this planet. (Anyone else remember when it was *only* six? Yeesh.) Most of them probably disagree with you. That’s fine. But what we have to remember regardless of who disagrees is that we’re all stuck on this little round rock together. We have to breath each other’s air and drink each other’s water. Sometimes we have to help other people’s children.

This world can be a big and scary place, but it’s full of faces. Full of people who might look and think differently than we do, but people who ultimately desire the same things we do. Safety. Love. Food. Sex. Warmth. Companionship. We’re all different, but we are also all the same. We’ll never get along if we can’t think outside the box and step out of our comfort zones a little.

Besides. Sometimes you find that life just tastes a bit better when you do.

Buffy the Siberian Husky and Willow the Domestic Medium Hair Mutt Cat are already best pals — they play, drink from the same water bowl, and wreak havoc for Mom. Between the surprise pouncing matches, the war on Mom’s bamboo, and Buffy’s ability to pee twice in two minutes right after she comes inside, life’s always a trip in the Mears household. They’re only 9 weeks into this life, but they’re already showing me that they’ve got some wisdom to teach me.

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Author | Emmie Comments | 18 Date | March 17, 2012

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frangipanroberts

Reblogged this on Inkings and Inklings and commented:
Some wisdom via one cute Husky puppy

March 17, 2012 | 11:51 am

ralfast

D’aaaaaaawww!

πŸ˜€

March 17, 2012 | 12:02 pm

KM Huber

Well said, much applause from here, which includes a Beagle mix and a grey-blue dilute kitty who have been together six years since EmmaRose’s kittenhood. Beagle Cooper is eleven now and their original human mom is gone but we’ve been family for the last year when they took me in. Best to Buffy and Willow from Cooper James and EmmaRose.

Karen, fastest typist in the family

March 17, 2012 | 12:07 pm

crubin

Excellent post and so true! Especially the part about our ears as an asset. Loved it. πŸ™‚

March 17, 2012 | 12:11 pm

Lisa Ann Hayes

Love this post, Emmie.

March 17, 2012 | 1:09 pm

patriciasands

Lessons in life come from the most surprising sources. We can feel the love there, Emmie.

March 17, 2012 | 1:15 pm

Mike Schulenberg

Clever post πŸ™‚ And Buffy looks like an awesome puppy.

March 17, 2012 | 1:38 pm

    Emmie Mears

    She is! Still working on the potty training, though. If I miss her once, she pees four times.

    March 17, 2012 | 1:44 pm

tmso

Doggies are the best. And if he gets along with the cat, better yet. Some great advice there.

March 17, 2012 | 2:03 pm

jmmcdowell

Wonderful post! I keep hoping that if my various ancestors could come to this country and put their old hatreds and prejudices behind them, maybe people today can, too.

March 17, 2012 | 3:24 pm

August McLaughlin

I’m melting. What an adorable poochβ€”and one we can all learn from.

March 17, 2012 | 4:17 pm

Angie (Write_Me_Happy)

What an inspirational post! Thanks for that little lift πŸ™‚

March 17, 2012 | 6:52 pm

ralfast

Great job socializing both. It can be tough since cats and dogs use different body language to communicate, such how their ears move down or up depending on whether they are submissive or defensive. Although I prefer German Shepherds Huskies are a close second and cats, well I like them all, even if they don’t all like me back. πŸ˜€

March 18, 2012 | 12:00 pm

    Emmie Mears

    They’re still sort of feeling each other out and learning, but they mostly play really well together. We just always supervise closely and make sure if we hear a mew we enforce “easy” with Buffy.

    Sigh…Willow Kitty slept up by my chin last night with her paws tucked under my cheek. I love that kitty so much.

    March 18, 2012 | 1:52 pm

Adriana Ryan

What a great post! 9 weeks old and they’re already teaching you some important life lessons, huh? πŸ˜€ Glad to see you getting used to furry motherhood!! πŸ˜€

March 18, 2012 | 1:11 pm

    Emmie Mears

    Thanks! They’re a lot of fun, and the puppy sure keeps us hopping, lol.

    March 18, 2012 | 1:52 pm

Carrie Daws (@CarrieDaws)

Love this! Lots of great insight and written very non-threateningly. I’m sure it will “sneak” into someone’s head and change some things. ;o)

March 19, 2012 | 10:08 am

neyska

Great post. Critters are great for helping you look at life differently if you’re willing to watch and learn. This also got me to thinking of all the life lessons my horses have taught me. Wow. That’s a long list.

Thanks for sharing. πŸ™‚

March 19, 2012 | 2:41 pm

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