Alissa Leonard, “Old Faithful” versus Angie Richmond, “The Europe Thing” versus J.B. Lacaden, “Hanging”
Read these three entries HERE.
Because of the number of entries, I had to have an erm…three way.
Lyra Selene, “The Seeds of the Earth” versus T.C. Sinclair, “The Coming”
Read these entries HERE.
Yesterday a question popped into my mind.
“If you could do anything or be anywhere, why don’t you?”
It sounds almost like something Dr. Seuss would say. I’m not even sure it makes sense. But it made me think.
Regardless of how you feel about the Big Age Landmarks (these often fall suspiciously on the round decades), they often manage to conjure up questions you don’t want to hear. Like “Is this really where you thought you’d be?” and “Are you sure you want to wear that?” and snotty little statements like “Mmmhmmm. You’re still doing the same thing. What else is new?”
Irritating as those questions are, they have a certain validity.
No matter which way you slice the cake, I’m not where I want to be. And I still have a couple of years to get there, so when those questions show up I can throw dirt in their faces and cackle.
This isn’t to say dreams are impossible to achieve past a certain point, but I’ve been stuck in one of those Oregon Trail wagon ruts for two years, and for the last eight months I’ve been clawing toward the horizon feeling like something’s gotta give.
So in the last few weeks, I’ve made some huge decisions. None are going to magically poof the horizon closer to me, but they should help on the way. One’s a career choice, another is a lifestyle choice.
They’re both going to take a lot of time and effort, but I hope to accomplish two things:
1. Leave the restaurant industry for good. Serving has been wearing me down for the last two years, and I need a job that allows me more financial freedom as well as the ability to be my own boss. Since thus far I can’t do that with my writing, I’ve decided to become an Independent Beauty Consultant for Mary Kay Cosmetics and build myself a business that way. I won’t go too far into details on that, but I will say I want my style of MK to come with a bit of an edge. I dare you to picture me in a pink Cadillac. 😀
2. I want to create a healthy, strong body that will not only look better, but perform in what I want it to perform. I want to cultivate a lifestyle that reflects my inner image and builds discipline and strength. So I have decided to begin studying Karate this fall with the intention of progressing as far as I possibly can.
Part of effective life changing is setting quantifiable goals, and I want to share them with you for the sake of my own accountability. 🙂 Consider this Emmie checking in with the world.
Here are my goals:
Most of these goals are relatively short term, and I do have long term goals as well. I was waiting for something to pop out at me, something that offered what I needed in terms of supporting my family and my writing, and Mary Kay happened along just as I needed it. I’ll post a few more details about that later, but for now suffice it to say that I’m running toward the horizon as fast as my legs can take me.
Which right now is approximately six miles per hour (at least at first).
What goals are you headed toward? What changes do you want to make in your life before your next Landmark?
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